6 Board games – that are actually fun for the whole family

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6 Board games - that are actually fun for the whole family

We definitely have a bit of a board game geekery going in our house. Mr B bought me Carcassonne the Christmas before E was born and we sat and played it when I was in early labour!

Board games are brilliant for learning.  Young children gain so much from them – basic number recognition, counting, turn taking, probability, strategy just off the top of my head.   If you are looking for something for younger children – orchard games are a great place to start. Spotty Dogs is a lovely simple one and great for talking about basic number concepts without your child realising they’re learning. If You See A Crocodile was much loved by E – although drives you nuts after a while!

Lets face it though,  even  with quality games they can be mind numbingly dull for the adults. Over the past year and a half or so E.  has become much more able to play games that are interesting for us too. Games that require a bit of strategy and forward planning rather than simple luck. These are our current top 6

(At the time of writing E. is almost 8)

Games marketed at children

 

Dobble

6 Board games - that are actually fun for the whole family

This is a simple card game with various different modes of game play. It’s really easy to pick up It comes in a little tin so is great to pop in your bag and play on the train or when waiting for an appointment. It’s a short game and can easily be played without an adult.

Labyrinth

6 Board games - that are actually fun for the whole family

This has been a firm favourite since we got it just before E. turned 7. He likes the fantasy characters and treasure collecting element. The game play is really unusual – you move the board around to change the labyrinth and collect your treasure – it’s easy to understand but takes a bit of forward thinking to play.

Qwirkle

6 Board games - that are actually fun for the whole family

This is a bit like scrabble with shapes.  E finds this a bit tricky at the moment  so we do end up giving him a lot of advice. I really like the chunky solid tiles and the bright colours. (and the fact there’s no spelling involved!) I can also see us being able to adapt the play for little sister once she gets a bit bigger.

Incan Gold

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We had to watch this video to figure out how to do this! The game play is actually fairly simple once you get the hang of it and involves basic probability along with a bit of trying to figure out what your opponent is thinking. There’s a bit of an Indiana Jones feeling about it which E. likes. The game play is pretty short.

 

Games aimed at adults that children can play.

These games are both officially mine which automatically makes them appealing to E!! Both games take a fair bit longer than the previous 4 games and have more complicated rules. They’re labeled as 8 plus but we’ve played them many times with just adults which we probably wouldn’t do with any of the others.

With both of them we played them  non-competitively from when he was 4 or 5 and have gradually introduced the rules until we are pretty much able to play them properly now.

Carcassonne (AKA ‘The Castle Game’)

6 Board games - that are actually fun for the whole family

This was great for spacial awareness before he could play it properly. We used to simply take turns to lay the tiles and see who could build the biggest castle.  We gradually introduced the ways to score points and now play the full rules.

 

Ticket to ride (AKA The Train Game)

6 Board games - that are actually fun for the whole family

E really resisted playing this as an actual game rather than just making train-lines – basically you’re supposed  to make lines between given destinations. He can now play it properly, although we have to show him where his destinations are (which has the bonus that we can’t accidentally block his route)

 

For other ideas I liked this post from Morgan Price  (and there’s obviously some overlap)

 

We’re always looking out for new ones so we’d love to hear your recommendations

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Autumn Sensory play – Water

Autumn Sensory Play - water - an easy autumn activity for toddlers and beyond.

 

Did you see my post on our Autumn Sensory Tub? I find our sensory tubs get about a week’s worth of play out of them unless I change them around a bit. So this morning, when Little Miss was trying to climb up my leg so she could wash her hands, I had a bit of a brainwave.

 

Autumn sensory play - water- an easy autumn activity for toddlers and beyond.

Contents

I basically took everything that wasn’t a leaf or made of cardboard out of the Autumn tub and put it in water

  • Water
  • Muffin tray
  • Acorns
  • Pinecones
  • Conkers
  • If I’d have thought about it fresher leaves would have worked well too but the ones we have are a bit brown and dried out now.

 

Autumn sensory play -water - an easy autumn activity for toddlers and beyond.

 

Suffice to say – she loved it. We could do with a shallower tub if we’re going to play on the table like this – but I wasn’t really prepared for water play on the floor!

If you haven’t tried sensory tubs with toddlers I go into much more detail in the Autumn Tub post.

Tidying Up

I have learnt that it’s really good to ask Little Miss to help me tidy up once she’s bored of something. I’m not naive enough to think this is going to make much difference to her willingness to help when she’s older – I have a 7 year old who loved helping when he was little too! But, at the moment, she likes doing it so it actually extends the playing time. It also gives me a chance to repeat some simple language which is great for her speech development.

Autumn sensory play -water - an easy autumn activity for toddlers and beyond.

If you’ve got any other ideas of what we can do with these autumn bits before they go in the compost bin I’d love to hear them. You can comment here or I’m on Facebook, Twitter or Instagram.  (Click the boxes on the side bar)

 

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Homework Help – Halving Two Digit Numbers

How to help your child with maths - Halving two digit numbers

Disclaimer – I’ve been a primary school teacher for 14 years including being specifically trained to do specialised one- to-one work to help with maths. While this actual activity came out of my head the idea of using coins to help came from my training.

I posted a few weeks ago about how I’m helping E. with his homework. This week the homework he was given was quite challenging so I thought I’d post the actual activity we did.  Even if your child isn’t studying this particular maths skill the general activities are applicable for lots of number work.

One of the difficulties many children have with maths is it’s very abstract (numbers on a piece of paper) rather than practical. My general advice if your child is struggling to understand something would always be to make it practical.

Activity – Halving 2 digit numbers

The issue E had with this is he could half numbers where both digits were even – e.g. 24 – in his head with no problem but he didn’t know (or couldn’t remember) how to half when the tens number is odd – e.g. 30

What I did

To make this practical I gave him 3 10ps and said we needed to share them. At first he tried to give me 10p and keep 20p for himself (clever boy). He knew that wasn’t actually fair of course so he realised he needed to split one of the 10ps.

How to help your child with maths - Halving two digit numbers

Because he understands that a half of 1op is 5p he was then able to exchange the 10p for 2 fives and solve the problem

How to help your child with maths - Halving two digit numbers

After a bit of practice he could also do 34p, 56p etc

General suggestions

  • Actual money money is more appealing than play money – start by restricting it to 10s and 1s – you want the money to be an aid rather than another point of confusion.

How to help your child with maths - Halving two digit numbers

  • Be quiet (this works for any kind of learning) Try not give additional help too quickly. One tip I was taught is wait until it’s getting kind of uncomfortable then count to ten in your head. Then ask if they are still thinking or if they need help.
  • If they get to the point they are just randomly yelling numbers they’ve stopped thinking!
  • Little and often generally works best – ten or fifteen minute practice every day on a new skill is better than a long slog.
  • Try not to think of yourself as teaching – more helping them to figure it out for themselves (I did this in the classroom too)

Other ideas

This worked because E. could physically move the coins around see where half was. He had enough of an understanding of the value of the 10p versus the 1p and the 5p for it to work.

If your child isnt quite at that point then they may need tens that are made up of ten actual things bunched together – e.g. sticks of  10 lego bricks, or sets of ten straws tied in an elastic band. Then they can physically split the number up.

How to help your child with maths - Halving two digit numbers

In case you’re wondering this is what Little Miss was up to while I was focusing on E!!

How to help your child with maths - Halving two digit numbers

 

I’m thinking of making this an ongoing series so do let me know if this helped. If you have any questions please ask – I may get another blog post out of it 😉

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Does complete honesty matter?

Along with many, many mums I often feel like I’m not doing enough; or being interesting enough; or listening well enough. I’m sure my children watch far too much TV and I definitely spend too much time on my phone. I could easily make a long list of all of the ways of I’m failing to be the best mother I can be.

I don’t think social media helps with that: Facebook, Pinterest and Instagram all paint pictures of happy families engaged in exciting activities and it’s so easy to assume that everyone is doing more and enjoying it more.

So is it necessary to be completely honest and share the all of the lows as well as the highs? I’m not sure. I think there is definitely a place for that. There are blogs I love (The Unmumsy MumHurrah for Gin and Renegade Mothering) that do that brilliantly. But I think that they make something that is actually really difficult to do look easy! It’s hard to write about how soul destroying parenting can be and how much you want to hide in the kitchen drinking at 2pm without coming across terribly. It’s hard to be relatable and to clearly adore your children while also complaining about the awful bits. And anyway I just can’t swear on social media because my mum reads it!

I love looking at blogs that give me practical ideas of things I can do with my kids The Artful Parent and No Time for Flashcards are probably my current favourites and Pinterest is a brilliant resource – I’m pretty sure I never would have even heard of sensory tubs without it. But sometimes I look at them and feel like everyone is doing better than me and filling their children’s lives with more than I do.

I first started blogging (on the now defunct Posterous) purely as a way to keep a record of the things I’d made and craft activities I’d done. I wanted somewhere to store photos and ideas so I could look back over them. I didn’t even bother sharing it with anyone for months.

When I decided that I wanted to actually blog on a more regular basis again I went through and looked at my old posts. They are full of fun, enriching activities I did with E. when he was younger and realised that I’m as guilty as anyone of only sharing half of the picture. When I look back at that time I do remember doing all of those things but I also remember him watching hours and hours of TV, I remember that I always felt I was rubbish at sitting on the floor and playing with what he wanted to play.

So it absolutely isn’t a complete picture because while I do occasionally share how I’m feeling that isn’t really the point of my blog. I want to be able look back for ideas, I want to look at it with the children, with rose coloured glasses on, and smile at all fun we had. If it gives other people ideas of things they can do then that’s brilliant.

But don’t go away with the idea that I’ve got it sorted over here – because I’m just winging it and trying to get through until bedtime along with everyone else.

Does complete honesty matter when blogging? Don't go away with the idea that I've got it sorted over here - because I'm just winging it and trying to get through until bedtime along with everyone else.

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Autumn Sensory Bin For Toddlers

E. loved sensory tubs when he was little so I’ve been waiting for Little Miss to stop putting everything in her mouth so we can start making them for her. (If you missed it here’s a round up of the ones I made for E. when he was three)

 

Bamm Boo - How and Why to Set up an Autumn Sensory Bin For Toddlers

With such a big age gap (there are 6 1/2 years between them) I’m often looking for things they can do together and this was perfect. We went for a lovely walk during half term and collected a big pile of leaves, pinecones and acorns etc. E. loved doing this and really hunted for the best leaves and so on.  We put it in a big tub – I find large under bed storage boxes the best for sensory tubs – we started with a smaller one and it really didn’t work as well.

Bamm Boo - How and Why to Set up an Autumn Sensory Bin For Toddlers

Contents

  • Leaves
  • Acorns
  • Pinecones
  • Conkers (we could only find a few – I think we missed the best time for these!)
  • Silicone muffin tin (this doesn’t match the colour scheme which made me a bit sad (!!) but really helped give her something to do
  • Cardboard tube (I don’t let my kids play with toilet roll tubes because I have a 7 year old boy in the house – but in most households I’m sure these would be fine!)
  • Berries – I quickly took these out because she was squashing them between her fingers which is great for motor development but I wasn’t sure if they were poisonous!)

 

Bamm Boo - How and Why to Set up an Autumn Sensory Bin For Toddlers

How I use sensory boxes

If you’ve been doing these for a while you can skip this but but hopefully it’ll be useful for some of you!

  •  No matter what the theme,  sorting trays; spoons; tubes etc are really useful. As they get older and can do more imaginary play, little animals and people and so on are really good too.
  • I (vaguely) clear the floor/ playing area first and I don’t leave them out for general play.
  • At first I sit and model or narrate what they are doing. This is great for language development. “The acorn is in the tube”, “There’s another pinecone etc” If I’m modelling I just do stuff with the contents myself and sometimes they copy and sometimes they don’t.

Bamm Boo - How and Why to Set up an Autumn Sensory Bin For Toddlers

  • Once they’ve got the hang of it I tend to leave them to play more independently – but monitor more closely than I might do with normal toys
  • I don’t let them just dump the whole thing on the floor – if they start tipping it out we put them back in. Little Miss can manage this at 16 months even though she regularly tips the entire contents of her toy box out!
  • When they are finished or getting bored of it we pack it up and put it away.

Bamm Boo - How and Why to Set up an Autumn Sensory Bin For Toddlers

Benefits 

  • She absolutely loves it! ‘Box’ has quickly become a new word  and whenever she sees it she yells for it.
  • Motor skills – grabbing, putting things in tubes and the muffin tray are all good for her hand eye coordination.
  • Language skills, she’s learning ‘in’ and ‘on’ as well as the words for the contents of the box.
  • Sorting and separating. These are early maths skills she’s developing – if she was older I’d maybe model some pattern making or basic addition and subtraction as well.
  • Understanding of the world – she definitely seems even more interested in the leaves falling from the trees. It’s also given rise to conversations with her big brother about the changing of the seasons.
  • Social – as a ‘new toy’ everyone has sat and played with her and talked to her about it.
  • I’m sure there are lots more that I’ll think of as soon as I hit publish.

 

This was really easy to set up and apart from the box itself (our previous one is being used to actually store things!!) it was completely free.

For more information

 

Have you tried sensory tubs with your little ones? I’m always looking for new ideas.

 

Tammymum
Two Tiny Hands
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